what is the meaning of marriage?

Yesterday, a colleague said, she wants to get married because they want to buy the house a little earlier;

Not long ago, a friend said, she wants to get married because she feel the life is not fun, so they want to have a child;

Besides that, many people said that they feel the other conditions are not bad, so they wants to get marry...

There are so many reasons for getting married, but I don't know why they are all so reluctant that people can't hear the feelings of joy or sorrow from them. It's a long time that I did not hear a man say he is going to get married because of love, because he want to stay with another forever.

May be foever is too far, maybe life is not perfect. 

Once I saw a Hongkong woman writer who write a passage in a book:

"If we are now staying in a tasteless cantury? There are many tasteless things, but if we give up we will feel very pity! For example, our marriage, work, even the lunch you eat just now."

When reading the text I can feel a kind of invisible tears sadness and a not flesh and blood torture, life as if in a flawed one after another.

One day I met a high school girlfriend, and I know her has been dating non-stop for a long time, but has not met the satisfaction. so I asked her, if her demand is too high? To the kind of high education, high income, high stature? Because we are very familiar with each other, so my mood was evident in some ridicule.

She smiled and said, no, she was not too much about these, in fact, a blind date is a strong purpose, rushes is married, but she is not that kind of feeling.

I know that as long as this kind of people is the most difficult to success to date. I couldn't help asking her how marriage feeling?

"I just hope that when I do not happy he can make me feel that he will always accompany at me nearby, even if he did not say something, just hold me, tight, tight, tight again and say he will always love me."

Her expression firmly, without the slightest joke expression.

I suddenly felt a little touched, like even moonlight can not penetrate the city, to see the warmth of the light line.

I think that I do not necessarily require the other side to it that I feel honestly Acacia, hard waiting, or rain, love, my marriage just need to make light of the steady, but one day when he asked me to marry not because of his marriage can bring much practical interest, but the marriage share in his life.

I hope that moment, he can give me a reason to tell me he wanted to spend, and I spent every joy, anger, joys and sorrows of life, with life and death is. Even if it is only at that moment.......